to the Prophet and asked, “O Prophet, give me some advice which will enable me to manage all the affairs of my life.” The Prophet told him, “Don’t be angry.” As anger is always the result of provocation, we should understand this as, ‘Don’t be angry, even when provoked.’
That is to say, stick to positive behaviour in all situations. In fact, in normal conditions man is governed by his own nature. And nature always takes the course of peace. When people are provoked their nature is upset, and they are derailed into negativity. So the Prophet advised people never to take a negative course of action, and to keep to a peaceful and positive behaviour in all situations, even in the face of provocation.
Giving vent to anger is a sign of weakness, whereas mastering anger is a sign of power.
Anger is the killer of peace. Giving vent to anger is a sign of weakness, whereas the mastering of anger is a sign of power. Anger, moreover, confounds one’s thinking capacity. The angry man can neither understand
any issue in a clear-headed way, nor can he give a response which is adequate to the situation. What is worse is that when an individual is angry, he is all too prone to turn to violence, but the truth is that violence is no solution to any problem. For one who can prevent himself from succumbing to anger, there is no situation which he will not be able to turn to good account. He will seek a peaceful solution—the only sure way to solve any problem.
This world is a world of differences. Nature abhors uniformity. This means that ‘difference’ is a part of nature. Difference is there in every aspect of life. So it is in the case of religion. Who has the power to remove differences? We have to learn the art of difference management rather than the art of difference elimination.
The Prophet of Islam used this guiding principle in forming an Islamic society in Medina. In 622, he migrated to Medina, where he lived until his death in 632. Medinan society was a multicultural society comprising of Muslims, Christians and Jews. In Medina, the Prophet of Islam issued a declaration called ‘Sahifa-e-Madina’, or the Constitution of Medina. There is a verse in the Quran to this effect—
“For you, your religion and for me, mine.” THE QURAN, 109: 6